God's Word above ALL things :)
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Klerksdorp, South Africa | Mand Søger en Kvinde
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Jeg taler
Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
I am honest, trustworthy, level-headed (I don’t panic), dependable, loving, responsible, confident and, fun-loving too; with a well-developed dry sense of humour.
I am also perceptive and can reveal my own heart to a woman rather easily, but trust and intimacy has to be established first of course. I would not describe myself as emotional (in the male sense lol), but I can emotionally connect with a woman very easily although I do still struggle sometimes, like most men do I think. Sometimes my own heart just needs a little feminine coaxing to reveal itself :)
I’m a mixture of introvert and extrovert depending on the circumstance, but more a confident and out-spoken introvert than anything else. I do not fear confrontation for the sake of God’s righteousness (not my own, as we have no righteousness apart from God) but hate quarreling, especially over silly things. I can tackle serious issues in a conversation and just as quickly I can switch to nonsense/humour i.e. back-and-forth between the two :) However, I’m inclined towards being more serious and intense but I love to relax as well. I need both. Character is very important to me. I dislike shallowness or, a clinical/sterile approach to life with a sense of humour failure. I do not want a robot for a wife!
Spiritually, I am neither a legalist / Law-keeper for my salvation (over-emphasis on the OT), nor a hyper-grace advocate (over-emphasis on the NT) I adhere to the whole character of God, placing His divine love first of course, and not cherry-picking the parts I'm most comfortable with. Christ has fulfilled ALL the Law and we fulfill it through loving Him :) but the (moral) Law does have a place in our Christian walk that has nothing to do with ‘works salvation’ nor Sabbath-keeping. I believe in salvation through Christ alone by faith alone in the context of grace alone and more specifically, new covenant freedom with responsibility i.e. conditional eternal security. I am neither a dispensationalist nor a classic covenant theologist nor a Calvinist nor an Arminian. There are errors in all of them. I am however, a 6-day creationist i.e. young-earth adherent.
I also like to pursue knowledge of spiritual matters, not content with merely knowing that something is true, but why it is true instead, for better understanding and application to my life, a closer relationship with God through growing spiritually and, to teach my kids. A teachable heart that follows the evidence trail is important, or else we might believe something merely because we want to believe it or, because thats what we were taught when we were young. None of us can claim to have a monopoly on Truth, but we believe what we do for good (or bad) reason and thus contend for the faith. It is certainly possible to be right, just like it is possible to be wrong. This in itself can only be true if Truth is absolute and immutable, not relative.
There is certainly room for disagreement in a relationship over lesser issues and differences in the bigger spiritual issues can be accommodated to an extent, provided the heart is teachable and is willing to follow the evidence, coupled with prayer of course. This applies both ways i.e. to husband and wife. Prooftexting alone is dangerous. One must look at the downstream practical Christian life implications of a particular theology as well, i.e. apply your rational mind to loving God (God is a rational God) Real life implications/observations must of course concur with Scripture :) Intellect with God = sense; intellect without God = humanism.
Spiritual growth is also important to me, and we can only grow by getting into His Word and studying it i.e. making the effort. Prayer is also a priority in my life and the closer my relationship (through hard times especially) to God, the more I simply WANT to talk to Him :)
I am also perceptive and can reveal my own heart to a woman rather easily, but trust and intimacy has to be established first of course. I would not describe myself as emotional (in the male sense lol), but I can emotionally connect with a woman very easily although I do still struggle sometimes, like most men do I think. Sometimes my own heart just needs a little feminine coaxing to reveal itself :)
I’m a mixture of introvert and extrovert depending on the circumstance, but more a confident and out-spoken introvert than anything else. I do not fear confrontation for the sake of God’s righteousness (not my own, as we have no righteousness apart from God) but hate quarreling, especially over silly things. I can tackle serious issues in a conversation and just as quickly I can switch to nonsense/humour i.e. back-and-forth between the two :) However, I’m inclined towards being more serious and intense but I love to relax as well. I need both. Character is very important to me. I dislike shallowness or, a clinical/sterile approach to life with a sense of humour failure. I do not want a robot for a wife!
Spiritually, I am neither a legalist / Law-keeper for my salvation (over-emphasis on the OT), nor a hyper-grace advocate (over-emphasis on the NT) I adhere to the whole character of God, placing His divine love first of course, and not cherry-picking the parts I'm most comfortable with. Christ has fulfilled ALL the Law and we fulfill it through loving Him :) but the (moral) Law does have a place in our Christian walk that has nothing to do with ‘works salvation’ nor Sabbath-keeping. I believe in salvation through Christ alone by faith alone in the context of grace alone and more specifically, new covenant freedom with responsibility i.e. conditional eternal security. I am neither a dispensationalist nor a classic covenant theologist nor a Calvinist nor an Arminian. There are errors in all of them. I am however, a 6-day creationist i.e. young-earth adherent.
I also like to pursue knowledge of spiritual matters, not content with merely knowing that something is true, but why it is true instead, for better understanding and application to my life, a closer relationship with God through growing spiritually and, to teach my kids. A teachable heart that follows the evidence trail is important, or else we might believe something merely because we want to believe it or, because thats what we were taught when we were young. None of us can claim to have a monopoly on Truth, but we believe what we do for good (or bad) reason and thus contend for the faith. It is certainly possible to be right, just like it is possible to be wrong. This in itself can only be true if Truth is absolute and immutable, not relative.
There is certainly room for disagreement in a relationship over lesser issues and differences in the bigger spiritual issues can be accommodated to an extent, provided the heart is teachable and is willing to follow the evidence, coupled with prayer of course. This applies both ways i.e. to husband and wife. Prooftexting alone is dangerous. One must look at the downstream practical Christian life implications of a particular theology as well, i.e. apply your rational mind to loving God (God is a rational God) Real life implications/observations must of course concur with Scripture :) Intellect with God = sense; intellect without God = humanism.
Spiritual growth is also important to me, and we can only grow by getting into His Word and studying it i.e. making the effort. Prayer is also a priority in my life and the closer my relationship (through hard times especially) to God, the more I simply WANT to talk to Him :)
Underskriv
Gemini
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Gennemsnitlig
Min højde er
191 cm
Mine øjne er
Grå
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Skilt
Jeg har børn
Ja - hjemme
Jeg vil have børn
Ja
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Hår
Kropsudsmykning
Ville ikke engang overveje det
Mit hår er
Lysebrun
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Ingen kæledyr
Villig til at flytte
Ja
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsgrad
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Fuldtid
Mit speciale er
Forskning / videnskab / ingeniørarbejde
Min jobtitel er
Production Researcher
Jeg tjener så meget på et år
Fra $45.000USD til $59.999USD
Jeg bor
Med børn
Hjemme
Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem
Jeg er ryger
Nej
Jeg drikker
Nej
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Stille type
Min sociale opførsel er
Venlig, Observerende, Reserveret
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Camping, Computer, Familie, Internet, Havearbejde, Læring, Musik, Fotografering, Læsning, Religion / Spiritualitet
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Afslappende, Være hjemme, Prøve noget nyt
En ideel første date ville være
Anywhere... its the quality of the time spent together that is more important.
Jeg har altid villet prøve
Skydiving!
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, En andre gerne vil være
Synspunkter
Mit trossamfund
Uden trosretning.
Jeg deltager i tjenester
En gang om ugen
Mit mål i livet er
To run the race and receive the crown of eternal life :)
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Dokumentarer, Dramaer, Sitcoms, Gør-det-selv, Film
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Science Fiction, Comedy, Romantik, Drama, Dokumentar, Familie
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Ambient, Elektronisk, Jazz, New age, Pop, Rock
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Gør-det-selv, Natur, Religiøs, Teknisk
Min forestilling om hvad der er sjovt er
Ask me... :)
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Skaldethed, Empati, Flirtende, Flot udseende, Humor, Intelligens, Særheder, Passivitet, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke, Morsom
Hvad leder du efter?
A woman who is like a 'quiet storm', confident and precise in what she believes and seeks in a man, with a strong sense of right and wrong and not shy to say it and, with a heart after God's own who stands by (not behind, under, above etc.) her man, is extremely attractive to me indeed. I also adore femininity. No beauty with a 'bad girl' or bombastic attitude please, it detracts from physical beauty. I want a woman not a girl, maturity not immaturity. Thus, there is room for either extrovert or introvert (I'm a mix of both) I despise pride and haughtiness but love true God-centred confidence and strong will in a woman, towards what is right and pleasing to God in a given situation. She must love God, love her man, and love her children fiercely and selflessly.
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Dato, Intim, Forpligtet