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Pbenac

Portage, Indiana | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As
This is a little awkward to be so public, so open, so soon. Isn’t it more comfortable knowing someone that you are talking to? If you know someone (at least a little) you needn’t worry about profile pics that are 20 years old, or worse, pics of someone else entirely. At lease it would be nice to have had the opportunity to see who you are talking to before making a decision. Now, we make decisions before knowing. What other choice do we have? Options are limited. You can stalk them at work, church, the store, or wherever you are both at, do a quick check to see if there is any chemistry. However, people don’t react well when you walk up to them in the grocery store and ask them for their profile. It’s probably a good time for me to say that I can be a little socially awkward. If you are still reading, I will give you my best effort at giving you a feel of who I am. My marriage lasted 20 years. My two children are sleeping in this morning after coming in last night for their visit (my son is 15 and my daughter is 7). They stay for two weeks each month. You see ladies, this is a package deal for us. Being a great father has been my first and best job. We learn things as go through this adventure. There is so much to see, to do, to learn, and diligently explore. I try to add value to every relationship and situation that I purposefully develop, or wander into. The ideal of “win-win” is important to me. Friendships are collected like valued treasures. I have many dear friends that have been a vital part of my life for over 30 years. I am fiercely loyal to them. Stories too are treasures to be collected. I have a treasure-chest full of crazy tales from folks that have traveled the globe. One of the first things I ask of someone when meeting them in a social setting is for them to share their best story with us. If there is one word to describe my life, it is “adventurer.” I have been blessed to have lived in Japan for nearly six years. Other places that have been explored along the way are: Spain, Croatia, Malta, Italy, Mexico, Canada, S. Korea, and most of the U.S. My hobbies include: motorcycling (retired from riding), bicycling, wine making, story collecting, Akido-jujitsu, impromptu road-trips, and great food. I love historical stuff. Over the past few years, I have been working on a Doctorate in business management. The dissertation is the last part and is about to start in the fall. This should take about a year to complete. Professionally, I work in sales and marketing and my days are long. I have also recently launched a consulting company (employee engagement/org culture). Community service is also a large part of my life. I believe strongly in giving back to the community that has given me so much opportunity and joy. Currently, my life is in a bit of a transition. For a while, the thought of slowing down has been gaining on me. I’ve been so busy that dating has been difficult. I have been single for over 5 years, and want to have a loving, giving, committed relationship with a wonderful Christian woman. It is best if you are a person of faith as I am. I am a committed Christian. What I am looking for is someone to hijack my adventures, add to my ever-growing pool of great relationships & stories, and be a partner in crime. I am hoping for someone who is very affectionate, warm, and joyful. Lastly, dresses and stilettos are like a lovely combination of catnip and kryptonite. Don’t be a stranger. Stop by and say hello. P
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Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Calves
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
Willing To Relocate
No

More about him

How often do you go to church?
Once a week
Do you attend bible study?
Once a week
How often do you read the bible?
As often as possible
Do you attend prayer groups?
No
Do you go to Confession?
No
Have you been through confirmation?
No
Have you been baptized?
Yes
How often do you expect your partner to attend church?
Once a week

Status

My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Sales / Marketing
My Job Title Is
Sales Manager
At Home
There Is Always A Party Going On
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Jock
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Exercising, Sports, Music, Travel, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
A quiet café. A place where we can talk quietly and get to know each other.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Hang-gliding.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, A Troll

Views

My Denomination Is
Non-Denominational
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Conservative
My Goal In Life Is
To add value to every situation I find myself in.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly, Obscure

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Honesty, no games, positive outlook.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed